Book: The Many Facets of Me
Tagline: From A Heart of
Hurt to The Joy of Jesus
Genre: Christian Non-Fiction
Author: Dr. Wendy Hall Sims
Release Date: June, 2019
Word Count: 11,837
BLURB:
Dr. Wendy Hall Sims in The Many Facets of Me shares
how she moved From A Heart of Hurt to The Joy of Jesus. She expounds
upon how God allowed the facets of her life to build her character and faith.
Dr. Sims encourages her readers to put their trust securely in God, who will
always channel every situation into one that will ultimately work for your
good. Being mocked (for the color of her skin) and molested at a very young
age, she identifies with those who have been hurt but encourages them like her,
to use their hurt to their advantage by spreading a message of love and hope.
She attributes her relationship with Christ for helping her to move from a
heart of hurt to the joy of Jesus.
About the Author
Dr. Wendy Hall Sims earned her Ph.D in Psychology and is
the Chief Operating Officer of Metropolitan Circles, LLC. She is the wife of
Pastor Samuel Sims, mother of three, and grandmother or seven. She resides in
Ringgold, Louisiana where she operates as the First Lady of We Care Ministries.
Chapter One
Pushing
Through To Reveal
The
Facets of Me
It has taken me some time to understand fully what my
journey is about. Of course, just like many of you, I still do not know the
story in full. Nevertheless, the bits and pieces have caused me to conclude,
there was not a hurt or pain strong enough to hinder, derail, or cancel out the
plans God had for me.
Now don’t get me wrong or jump to the wrong
understanding. My boast is definitely not in myself, because I can assure you
on many occasions I wanted to crawl back into bed, pull the covers over my
head, and pretend I had drifted away into the land of Peter Pan. Unfortunately
for those of you who wanted to hide like me, it does not exist and even if it
did, we were not created to inhabit that space.
We were created to be right where we were, experiencing
just what we did, in order to be who we would become, and if you ask me, I’d
say today, “I’m happy God allowed me to stay to finish the race. We always say,
“The race is not given to the swift or the strong but to the one who endures.”
Fact is, we have the running down pat, but it’s the enduring that myself and
those like me find hard.
Sure, it’s always easy for someone who has never gone
through anything to feel like it was not hard for them, but either way, there
still should be some sympathy somewhere deep down inside of you for those of us
who had a hard time. No, we don’t want your pity, but we would like you to
persuade us to push through because reality is, there are so many facets of
each of us and the only way you will ever sort through them is if you push
through.
You may be asking, “Why on earth is Wendy starting her
book off here?” Let me tell you why. Many of you will never uncover or reveal
the facets of you because you are too uninvolved with the process. What do I
mean? Anytime we are faced with moving to another level or finding out more
about what we are capable of or purposed to do, we first have to be pushed out
of the level we are on by being processed.
Take an orange for instance.
You cannot get to the beauty or the good part until you
peel away the orange peel. Then, if you are lazy, uninvolved, or don’t care,
you will just keep the protective layer of the hull stuck on the backside of
the orange. At this point, because it requires more time than you are able to
give, you become uninvolved and you eat through all the strands that could have
been peeled off. You never take the time to get to the pure beauty of the
orange because anything that requires you to do more than you desire, you check
out.
Take a homeless person.
Some of them are so skilled but troubles, situations, and
circumstances caused them to determine…I will be better off living on the
streets. Less worry, less stress, no bills, no obligations, and the only two
things that I’m concerning myself with is food and a place to lay my head.
Seems easy huh. A lot of homeless people will tell you it’s harder than you
think, but they are so disconnected from their struggle and facets until this
works for them.
Take the Gerasene demoniac in Mark 5.
He was dwelling amongst the tombs, hurting himself with
the same stones he probably used to lay his head on. The reality is, he checked
out because of what was in him. Get it?
Whether it is good or bad stuff, too much of anything has
the power to cause you to check out if you are not looking at things through a
Christ-centered approach. If you cannot see that God allowed you to be blessed
in order for you to be a blessing, you can in up in a tomb of selfishness.
If you fail to realize that God allowed you to face so
many hardships in your youth to perfect you in adulthood, you can end up in a
tomb of bitterness. And, my brothers and my sisters in every tomb is a mob
waiting to ultimately kill you because they understand if you ever come to
terms with all the facets God has put in you to carefully construct you
according to His plan and promises for your life, you will destroy them in
everyone you meet.
I thought giving you some space to journal would allow
you to write down some things that happen to you in your youth that you may have
never looked at as a facet, God was perfecting in you.
What are the facets you went through as a
child that enemy might have put in place to kill you, but God allowed to
perfect you?
Can you now see how these have helped you to
be a better you?
I was given a Pdf to read this author's novel: The Many Facets of Me
Arlena's Book Review: http://arlenasbookreviews-arlenadean.blogspot.com
Title: The Many Facets of Me: From A Heart of Hurt To The Joy of Jesus
Author: Dr. Wendy Hall Sims
Publisher: DS Publishing
Reviewed By: Arlena Dean
Rating: Five
Review:
"The Many Facets of Me" by Dr. Wendy Hall Sims
My Rationalization:
I found 'The Many Facets of Me' by this author was absolutely well written and I was even able to identify with [understand] some of the things she had gone through in her life. From being bullied,[I was as a child too] rape, molestations, and divorce 'all things were meant to work together for the good.' Learning to forgive and seeing that 'God trusted her to 'Win' in the midst of all of her facets.' I loved how well this author was able to not only forgive the one who had molested her but also I loved how she was able to deal with her own mother through that whole situation.
Going through many facets in her life there was through prayer that she learned to see just how the power of prayer was able to register in her mind. She was able to 'know that God having chosen her was the reason that she survived.' I loved how this author was able to back all of her testimony with some powerful beautiful scriptures. Here are a few that are some wonderful reads: Isaiah 43:10, John 16:13, Jeremiah 1:4-5, Revelations 13:8, Romans 8:28, and Psalm 45:7. I read all of them and enjoyed all of them. I would definitely recommend for all to read 'The Many Facets of Me because you will get a lot out of this Christian Non-Fiction read.
Thank you, Arlena for such a BEAUTIFUL review! I realize everyone has a painful story to tell, but all will not tell. I am grateful to God to allow me to tell my story. My prayer while writing this book was if it helps one person to start the process to true healing this book has accomplished its mission. But now I am seeing and believing many will be blessed and healed through this book. God has a plan for everything and I am thanking God for giving me the opportunity to share my story and not be a shame of it. I realized a long time ago, the devil cannot control your mind, thoughts or life if you just TELL IT! The enemy has to be exposed! Again, I am hopeful others will reach a level of forgiveness, deliverance and healing through sharing my story. Thank you again for this opportunity to be on your blog-spot.
ReplyDeleteDr. Sims you are more than welcome. It was such a pleasure to read your novel and I do believe it will help others. May God ever bless and keep you in his will.
ReplyDeleteSometimes God gives us battles we don't understand at that moment but by and by it is working for our good to make us Stronger, wiser and better.
ReplyDeleteI have enjoyed reading 'The Many Facets of Me' very encouraging,inspirational as you read image of her smile comes through her story. I applaud you for sharing your testimony with the world. Angela Simpson
ReplyDeleteThank you!!!
DeleteI'm intrigued and anxious at the same time. The excerpt has my hanging on for the rest of the story. It's so strange that you feel like you have known someone for so long only to discover you may never ever quite know everything there is to know. Some people will choose to live the rest of their lives in silence and be robbed of the complete joy just trusting God can bring. To everything there is a time and a season and Dr.Sims this is your Exodus!!
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is YES!!!
DeleteI agree, the most inspiring part was her talks with her mother. It certainly helped me to evaluate the conversations I need to have with my mother. ...Thought provoking.
ReplyDeleteWow!!! Sometimes the conversation is not as hard as we think. It’s initiating the conversation that’s hard. Be Blessed!!!
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